Would there be such an uproarious if people realized he was not able to carry anything due to surgery or injury? Is the rush to judgement so ridiculous we have to display our infirmities for the world to see and to escape judgement? No position on the mime. He’s a clown. But everyone else’s judgement? Shameful until you know the whole story.
I’m amazed people would call out Dad, all it is, is an amusing interaction between couple and mime, like you’ve never seen a mom holding the diaper bag and dad not. Some women hold it because it’s there combo diaper and personal stuff bag or for some other reason they rather hold it then dad
Still a bad support, step up and help your wife that is struggling. Her press statement and the way she handles the situation is just to save face. If he was truly this nice, he would have regardless offer despite the excuses in the comments.
Because people like him are the ones letting their wives do all the work with the kids. It hurt his little feelings to see so Jane people agreeing that fathers should actually work with their kids.
You are a very silly person. You realize stay at home moms do more work then dads in the work place right? And they don’t get paid. They don’t get time off. They don’t get to sit back and relax after cooking, cleaning and educating. If we look at a stay at home mom’s work load she is literally working minimum 5 jobs. Maid, laundry attendant, chef, caretaker and teacher. If a dude works a single 40 hr job he can take a secondary job off mom so she can breathe.
Laundry attendant ? Caretaker. Maid
These are all the same Job. The longest it takes is 3 hours to complete. That’s hardly 5 jobs. It’s barely one job.
Maid is cleaning up after everyone all day and night. Laundry attendant can be a mountain of dirty laundry that you have to wash and fold and put away because no on e else is going to. That in itself can take hours and hours easily. And don’t try and say well if you keep up because a lot of families make 5-6 loads a day easily, plus kids have accidents and the bedding needs to be refreshed often where maid also comes in stripping and remaking what 3-5 beds potentially. Doing everything as you go because the kids will knock over every laundry pile and while you are cleaning one thing they or dad too are leaving another mess. Cleaning, laundry, organizing, cooking, prepping, teaching. It is more tiring than working two jobs overtime, trust me I’ve done both and managing a household is much more difficult than in any workplace. You get paid with hugs and snuggles and you can’t take a sick day when you do EVERYTHING falls behind and apart. I stayed up until 6am cleaning the house the other day to get caught up to get a little sleep to have wore to do.
MAID, REALLY ? Apparently, you are a male PIG ! A wife And mother IS NOT A MAID ! And apparently, you are one of those men that NEVER appreciates what a woman goes through to TAKE CARE of children AND a man [?] that CANNOT or WILL NOT lend a helping hand !!!
I was going to comment this, but u beat me to it so I’ll add that if he was that injured he couldn’t carry a bag why would he be strong enough to go on the trip to a park that can be fun yet grueling on the body? Just accept the fact that because of the feminist movement men have become passive aggressive with things like carrying bags, holding open doors etc. Because somehow wanting equal pay means chilvary must die
You tell me? Why DID pickles feel the need to justify bad behavior? Why did pickles think that because “man tired..feet hurt” is a good reason to dump ALL parenting duties on mom?
It have to be major surgery that left him an invalid or nearly so to equal being pregnant for 9 months and then delivering a baby. Despite what you obviously and obliviously think pregnancy is no picnic simply because women are biologically designed to become pregnant and deliver a child.
Even successful pregnancies It is extremely are physically taxing and take a heavy permanent toll on a woman’s body to the point that the her body is flooded with hormones in order to jack up her mood and make her happy once the child is born so that she’ll have the strength and desire to take care of it.
But pregnancy and the massive months lungs hormone swings required to carry a pregnancy to term taxes her body like nothing a man ever has to experience, and is the #1 reason why women age faster than men.
Honestly I find this concerning that the father was immediately judged because he wasn’t carrying a bag? (Coming from a woman myself) I don’t think what the mime did was necessary. Leave people alone.
He was doing NOTHING to help the mother of his child with his child. People need to stop letting men do this. I am a woman whose husband never had to be asked or told to help. He loved parenting his kids.
And how do you know he wasn’t carrying it around all day and his wife offered to carry it for a few minutes? Do you know? Or do you just make assumptions based on literally nothing?
I agree! I don’t like for my husband to carry my diaper bag. It’s also my purse and I just prefer to carry it myself. Plus, How does everyone know that dad didn’t just get done holding the baby? Maybe the baby wanted mom so she took him from dad? That happens very often with our 2 kids. I hate this new overly sensitive world.
I personally would rather do it all myself than have to or try to depend on anyone!! I have turned away help. I mean I dont ask for help and I don’t expect it. Thats me tho!!
It funny cause that could happen to me to me and my wife, we swap bags alot and the baby sometimes I have everything sometimes she does, since we get tired at different levels.times or sick or hurt. Just being realistic 🙂
…Even successful pregnancies are extremely taxing mentally and physically and take a heavy permanent toll on a woman’s body…
…Both the pregnancy and the massive months long hormone swings required to carry a pregnancy to term tax her body like nothing a man ever has to experience, and is the #1 reason why women age faster than men.
You must think men have it easy. We have to deal with the mental strain of dealing with a hormonal pregnant woman. Also you are generalizing. There are a lot of fathers who go above and beyond to make the pregnancy as easy for the mother as possible. Keeping them comfortable and happy is not the easiest task..for some it’s borderline impossible but still take it on with a smile. Yes child birth is extremely taxing on the body but now with epidural and cesarean childbirth is a party. What advances are there for men dealing with hormonal women? Unreasonable at times.we have what? Beer and sports center. I dont drink and all the cable money goes to diapers and formula. But sure let’s buy the kid an outfit for when they are 5 cause it’s 50% off. I’m just saying it’s not an easy ride for men either. Yes we will make mistakes only cause we are trying our best to navigate without a map. Just know we understand it’s a tough Rollercoaster ride but remember we are sitting right next to you the whole way if you will let us.
I have seen the mime so this on several occasions. This isn’t new. It’s funny and part of the act. Looking for deeper meaning in jokes and opportunities to be offended has overstayed it’s welcome. Let’s get back to being happy
Ohh sure labor is a piece of cake right man? Shall I tell you there were centuries before epidurals?! I had both my children with no epidural offered in the 1976 and 1979. Straight up hard labor nothing but Demerol when dialated 8 baby comes at 10. So, piece of cake, absolutely not. So, man up and carry the diaper bag!
HA you think epidurals and cesareans are a cakewalk? For the latter, you’re literally cut open to deliver the child… and that doesn’t heal instantly, so now depending on your support system (or lack of), you’re having to do all the housework all while not being supposed to carry anything heavier than your child, lest stitches bust. And epidurals can make it more difficult to deliver, and also cause problems, either directly or later down the line. Nah, sir. Not at all.
I was with you until this nonsense:
“Yes child birth is extremely taxing on the body but now with epidural and cesarean childbirth is a party.”
No. No it is not. I have no idea why you would think this but you are completely wrong and i want to make sure anyone reading this knows epidurals are not magic. Cesareans are extremely rough on a mother. The healing time is actually worse.
I’m happy when fathers support pregnant mothers since that’s what they’re supposed to do in the first place. Just to know that modern medicine is not magic and childbirth is still hard.
Because us men built this country with our own hands. Is it too much to ask for a woman to buck up? We’re the first to go into battle and last to off a sinking ship. Get over yourselves!
Well my 10 surgeries and passed kidney stone would like to kick your comment in the ass crack, im only 42, oh and both nurses during my kidney stone, said they had done both, and preferred the birth over the stone, as they were pulling my morphine off and wished me the best, so are those woman liars????? Too many people who know nothin bout somebody else’s life, but wanna act like they know BETTER
What an intense exchange of so many people having opinions. All the what ifs and made up scenarios. That couple was having a fun day out with their daughter when a simple act blew up causing a massive debate. At their expense. So for more important news, has the war in the Ukraine where people are dying, ended yet?
The baby was 13 months old, we cannot assume from this few minutes interaction how helpful he has or has not been during that time. I have 2 torn rotator cuffs, do I have to carry a sling to put my arm in when it’s acting up? I usually had 1 kid in the ergo wrap and another on my shoulders in this kind of situation, but when that joint starts to slip, yeah I need to put a kid down before my shoulder dislocates and our family trip became an emergency room visit. A lady accosted me at the grocery store one time this happened. My wife was about a year out from cancer surgery, I had been carrying our 2yo while dealing with our autistic 4yo having an episode and he hit me right in the shoulder. So my wife had to get the 2yo into the cart and winced cuz scars suck and a lady walking by says “Wow, he can’t even lift a finger to help, huh? What a catch.” Nevermind that I’d just spent the last year working 3 jobs, taking care of all 3 kids, the house, being her caretaker (this was before family caretakers being paid was a thing) and managing my blind/deaf MIL and disabled mom. But sure, I had a moment where I needed help, so go off, right? She had no place judging that without knowing the whole story. Period.
When we take our 2 yr old grandson out my husband carries my purse & diaper bAg. I don’t have to ask him he just takes it from the van after taking the baby out of his car seat for me. I never have to ask my husband to help me nor has to when our 3 were babies. He always helped, so maybe that mother needs to open her mouth & tell dad to help instead of walking away!
You do realize limbs are independent of each other, right? It is completely possible for someone to walk around at Disney world while having no arms at all. So maybe, just maybe, dad was not able to carry the bag. Not that it’s anyone’s business
Thank you for making this point. My husband has a medical condition that had that mime handed him thd backpack my families day at the theme park would have been over and we would have been on our way to ER.
Yeah, an injury so bad he can still go to seaworld yet couldn’t hold a bag. Ask yourself why you’re more offended than he was – though we know the answer is that you don’t like men being called out and will makeup whatever story you need in your head.
This is the exact situation with me. I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, at 30 years old, and have severe pain in my wrist joints, that keeps me from carrying things and doing simple things like pumping gas. I’m sure I’ve been judged, many times, by people, while I sat in the car while she pumped the gas. My wife has been one of those persons with their arms full, while I walked with our child with arms free. Please don’t be too quick to judge.
It’s annoying. The mime doesn’t know if the mother wanted to hold on to all the stuff pertaining to her cub. Unless it’s something outrageous. The couple both husband and wife are still customers. He’s an employee and should stay out an of it.
I was there that day at that show. It was all done in fun and the Mime was terrific! That guy wasnt the only one being picked on. If you cant take a joke, stay home! We thoroughly enjoyed it!
Would love to speak to the woman who said that men would make woman carry the world in a backpack to watch em struggle, yet nobody points out the man goin to work to bring home the $$ to pay for the child while the woman is home, he goes from work to work so mom can have a break when hes home, thats not only a man, but a real man, and im just talkin bout men with woman who will actually go back to work, cause there are woman who will let a man do all the work and watch them struggle as they use the credit cards and claim its “OUR MONEY” and then claim they cheated cause the man works 70hrs a wk and is nvr home, didnt see anybody mention that, have seen up close twice and yes its very real, so WE EQUAL OR NOT??? Thats how i was raised EQUAL!!!
Why so much discussion? It was a cute improv. Why are people looking for a meaning in every little gesture? We nit pick every strand of a letter in a word.
Stop. Live life and move on.
People are so over reactive and it is killing every moment of laughter. If the man or woman in the tik tok didn’t like what happened then it is up to them to speak up. These are adults.
The mime just did his job in fun. We need to not take everything so literal.
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I was also there the day this happened and honestly the pre show with the mime was better than the actual show. I had a feeling in the back of my mind though that something like this would happen because no one can take a joke anymore. I honestly hadn’t laughed that hard in so long when I watched all the stuff the mime did and was sad I didn’t record the whole thing.
I have been to Seaworld many many times and love the Mime. He has a hot, difficult job but manages to make people laugh. I’ve seen that routine before. It cracks me up. Life does not always have be critical
Not trashing the guy, but seriously. “I was in a daze, I was hungry and my feet hurt”- yet Mama managed to carry the pack, the kid and knew where they were headed. LoL. Just kinda typical.
Maybe Mama should have spoken up for herself. This is not an issue about men vs woman issue. It is about some mime putting in his two cents where it does not belong. If it would have been a woman mime, this would be something totally different.
If at 32 years old your feet hurt when walking for any extended period of time you need to see a podiatrist or at least get a good pair of walking shoes, of course you could rent a wheel chair and let your wife push you the baby and the bag around all day. LOL
Boo hoo – women are so abused by men in this society. One little snap shot of a minuite or two in the whole spectrum of his life and everyone oiunches what a bunch of self righteous pigs. I suggest all the outraged women who have it soooooo bad – move to Afganistan.
Nobody finds issues with someone videotaping a person who is not aware he is being recorded? Why do people feel the need to film other families and NOT their own while on vacation? Remember…..there are cameras everywhere!!!
Wow.. what if they were taking turns carrying the load, and it was her turn. Not to mention if she’s a stay at home mom.. he had been working all week. Did all the driving etc. He may have earned a load off. We dont know all the dynamics of the situation. Wife could have said.. ” hey honey I know you’re tired I got this.”. then some simp mime sticks his nose in their business.
I personally think of my daiper backpack as my purse. I bought it in a color that I like and matches my outfits. That is where I store my phone and wallet and such. It has things I need in it so I wouldn’t really want my husband to carry it. Also we take turns carrying our child so yes there are often times where I am carrying a backpack and our kid. I wouldn’t want other people judging my husband as being lazy or a bad parent for something stupid like that.
I’m glad I’m not the only one that rolled their eyes and sighed at this man!!! Your wife just doesn’t want to start a fight but you obviously underappreciate her.
Don’t forget the hemorrhoids! Actually, I just put that in for a laugh. Why are we off of the subject? The mime should have mined his own business. If the Mom needed help, SHE should have spoken up for herself! If it would have been a ” weird” looking stranger, this would be a totally different conversation.
This mine has been doing this for most of my life! He was there when it was Clyde and Seymour Take Pirate Island. That was our favorite show and we always got there super early to see the mime! He is so funny and means well. He had been doing this for years.
I visited SeaWorld a few years back with my husband, two daughters and my sister and her husband. My sister and her husband took the lead trying to find enough seating for all of us. We became separated by the mime that works around the whale tanks. I was mortified by the mime that made fun of my sister and her husband who were very over weight. The mime rocked back in forth while walking directly behind them to the roar of the crowd. I don’t think the mime knew we were together so my sister kept walking and turning back to see what was so funny. My kids were sad because he was making fun of their family. Well I never told my sister that the whole arena was laughing at her and her husband’s expense, I just couldn’t. I have not been back to SeaWorld since. I think I have a great sense of humor and love a good joke but I couldn’t quite get over the insensitivity, humiliation and sadness on my final visit to to SeaWorld💔🦑🐙🦞🦀🐡🐠🐬🦭🦈🦐💔
Most people here are evil. You are the reason and pressure that make men (such as me) have to carry all the burdens all the time when in public. Coz no one would now if you have carried the kid and all the bags for the entire day and only just asked the wife to give a hand a few minutes ago. They will just jump to the conclusion that you’re are terrible husband. And my insist carrying all stuff made my wife feel uncomfortable and bad as well. She wanted to help. She wanted to share some burden. Jumping to premature conclusion is an insult to both men and women.
Buncha people should really stop dunking on the man. Don’t think he deserves as much criticism as he’s getting. I don’t think the mine was in the wrong either cause he was just doing his job and a lot of it was improv. Je thought it was funny, the wife didn’t have any issues and clarified she didn’t mind holding the bag, the husband thought it was funny. Why are we here still then trying to insert our opinion into the mix or attempting to make this family a martyr for whatever cause you think you wish to further? Stop. Chill out. There are better situations, and examples you can use to push whatever narrative you want to push.
I know this Mime personally, he literally does it every other show. He didn’t single out this family. Anyone who is roasting him needs to get off their soap box.
Well,
If his feet were hurting that bad, he shouldn’t have went in the beginning! Whether my feet were hurting or not, I would have been the soldier that I am and took either the bag, baby or both, and soldiered on!!
Its no ones business but the husband and his wife. No one including the mime knows what happened prior to that moment. The wife could have been giving the a break from carrying the bag and the baby. We don’t know.
Man I wish I had a cushy woke job like this…. Just watch YouTube or tick tock all day and write brainless articles about it and then consider myself a journalist… lol (you figured out a life hack congratulations I truly mean that before anybody says it hell yes I’m jealous hahaha but I am giving honest props if you reread it without malice in your brain I’m actually giving them props for finding a cushy job there ain’t nothing wrong with that then again this is the internet and I’m sure people will cry about it if I broke your psyche good you deserve it toughen up)
Are we seriously judging this man as being a bad husband because of a bag?? I mean a bad husband to me is someone who abused his kids / Wife or someone who isn’t even there. If your unhappy in your relationship don’t take it out on this fellow. But no apparently you could be a bad husband for forgetting to carry a bag. You know this just show how weak minded people can be and how quick we judge people. Clearly the wife thinks he does a decent job as a husband. How about when a guy carries all the groceries in from shopping does that make the wife a bad wife? People are to soft and need to toughen up a bit. Urrrgggg this annoyed me and I wished I didn’t click this linked.
zzzzzzzz this has literally been going on for decades at the park and only NOW people have an issue with it? ROFL. Snowflakes. This is the way society has gone. It’s a joke. Jesus.
Anyone who has been to Sea World at least once in the last several decades has seen the mime interacting with guests while they wait for the show. It’s harmless fun and reminds us to not take ourselves so seriously. The mime is not attacking anyone to be malicious. Unfortunately, we have turned into a society that looks at every human interaction as bullying. Just breathe!!! Have fun!! Enjoy life!! If you are fortunate enough these days to afford going to theme park, things must be going well for you.
Maybe Dad had been carrying both baby and bag earlier, maybe it was Mom’s turn to change the babies diaper and they just left the restroom. Nobody in this chat was with this family all day. You witnessed a 30 second time of their day. RELAX!!
I do not understand how anybody has a right to judge the family dynamic here, they’re doing what they do. Let them be, nobody, including myself, has any right inserting an opinion into their family. Why is it everyone with 30 extra seconds and a smartphone suddenly becomes obsessed with virtue signaling.
It was nothing to be taken so seriously. Mom’s are used to being alone with the babies and just do their same routine of grabbing baby and bag. I know sometimes I have even told my husband “I got it”.
People need to stop making everything a gender war.
I find it interesting that people are so quick to make judgements and act on other people’s actions that have no effect on them or others and only effects the people/person in that situation. They have no knowledge of their situation or family dynamic, but judge them because it’s out of their norm. There are many cultures across the world that I may find odd, rude or gross, but unless I grew up in that culture who am I to judge
He’s a dad and is used to paying for everything, while she (excuse the pronouns) is, well, I would assume that she set him up. He was carrying the baby and bag for about eight hours now and she just took the child and bag from him when entering the seal and otter show.
I’m pretty sure the guy is a great dad. Whoever shot this video just caught the wrong moment. People seriously need to mind their own business. I’ll bet that Dad is carrying a lot of weight and whoever shot this caught the wrong moment. Enjoy the park, and mind your own dang business.
He is probably glad It was not me he stopped. Cause I probably would have hit him in the face cause I hate mimes and clowns.Especially ones trying to get in my business. They are just clowns that do not talk.
How did this “spark debate”? One group laughed and said the dad was in the wrong, the other group was angry and said the dad was wrong.
There’s literally no debate I’m the article. Everyone pretty much agreed the dad was a tool.
Here is what i witnessed and overheard. The father was holding the blob and the mother was holding the bag. She got mad because he didn’t want to pay for another fifteen dollar hot dog and soda for her since she had already eaten enough for two days. She grabbed the blob from him and threatened him saying he would have to pay child support and will only see the blob every other weekend. He laughed, knowing the court will indeed give the mother full custody, the house, and that he would need to give up over ninety percent of his income for child support. But to be free of her and her now boyfriend mime, he will be much happier.
This has been part of the pre-show entertainment for decades! Clyde and seymore taking Pirate Island is the show and while guests stream into the amphitheater before the show this mime takes the patrons mind off the long wait! He’s great! Not sure why this is even getting press, I guess some want to bash men whenever possible!
Think about how much pain you’re wife might been too but she still held the baby and the diaper bad. It don’t make him a bad dad at all but I do think men need to be more mindfully of what his wife goes through too.
They’ve finally conditioned me that there is no difference between a man & woman, which can’t be defined anyway unlesx you’re a biologist, and sold on Total Equality.
Carry your own freaking bag. 😏
Here’s the thing. The mime was in the wrong. There could be many reasons she was carrying it. Also tbh I’ve seen a lot of ppl get upset when I man tries to carry something for his wife/gf. Toxic masculinity smh
I doubt she was struggling. Like most moms she probably uses it for baby items and as a purse. Sometimes it’s just easier to carry it all myself. If I need my husband’s help I’ll tell him.
The sad reality is that many men are selfishly unaware and detached from relational and familial responsibility. It just does not come natural. They need to do better!!!!! If you’re married to someone who is on top of, intentional, purposeful and tuned in to the wife and kids——Show your appreciation! He’s a rare breed!!!!
Women act like they can’t be like this either. Women are just as bad as men. This isn’t a gender issue. It’s an individual issue. Bad men and bad women exist equally.
Look… At the end of the day, there is only one thing that governs male behavior. What/who women choose.
Not what they say they “want”, as they’ll settle for WAY less than that it seems… but what they CHOOSE. If they wanted manners, they’d never touch a door, pull out by their own chair, or carry a diaper bag. Men would be on top of it. But that’ll get you dumped 999 times out of 1000 for being “too nice”, or whatever.
So don’t reprimand the guy, Because let’s face it… He’s always been lazy. It’s not new. She chose lazy, slept with lazy, had a baby with lazy. And lazy is what it took to win her. I doubt she even required a ring- but who knows🤷♂️.
Good looking, successfull, attractive, men who wanted kids but got blown off in favor of a-holes (like that guy at minimum) have given white males in the US the highest suicide rate of any demographic in world history. Because they couldn’t force themselves to be that big a moron.
Look… At the end of the day, there is only one thing that governs male behavior. What/who women choose.
Not what they say they “want”, as they’ll settle for WAY less than that it seems… but what they CHOOSE. If they wanted manners, they’d never touch a door, pull out by their own chair, or carry a diaper bag. Men would be on top of it. But that’ll get you dumped 999 times out of 1000 for being “too nice”, or whatever.
So don’t reprimand the guy, Because let’s face it… He’s always been lazy. It’s not new. She chose lazy, slept with lazy, had a baby with lazy. And lazy is what it took to win her. I doubt she even required a ring- but who knows🤷♂️.
Good looking, successfull, attractive, men who wanted kids but got blown off in favor of a-holes (like that guy at minimum) have given white males in the US the highest suicide rate of any demographic in world history. Because they couldn’t force themselves to be that big a moron.
Comments for Performer Stops Young Dad “In His Tracks” to Reprimand Him, Sparks Debate
Pickles
Would there be such an uproarious if people realized he was not able to carry anything due to surgery or injury? Is the rush to judgement so ridiculous we have to display our infirmities for the world to see and to escape judgement? No position on the mime. He’s a clown. But everyone else’s judgement? Shameful until you know the whole story.
VLM
…the guy has already said that he was just hungry and sore of foot, though.
Kieth Kayman
I’m amazed people would call out Dad, all it is, is an amusing interaction between couple and mime, like you’ve never seen a mom holding the diaper bag and dad not. Some women hold it because it’s there combo diaper and personal stuff bag or for some other reason they rather hold it then dad
Paula Wynn
Mom is holding both the bag AND the baby because she doesn’t want either one to get LOST!!!
Samantha
Still a bad support, step up and help your wife that is struggling. Her press statement and the way she handles the situation is just to save face. If he was truly this nice, he would have regardless offer despite the excuses in the comments.
Penny
The mimes are the best part of that show. It’s not meant to be taken seriously. People get offended over the silliest things.
Leslie
I am just thrilled to hear they brought the mime back.
He is the very best part of the show!!
Mama G
Why do people like you always create these giant drama Rama scenarios that never actually exist??
Tina
Because people like him are the ones letting their wives do all the work with the kids. It hurt his little feelings to see so Jane people agreeing that fathers should actually work with their kids.
Philly Billy
Wow, so they go to work, come home and then mom gets a break from the kid while dad goes from work to work, sounds excellent
Akuin
You are a very silly person. You realize stay at home moms do more work then dads in the work place right? And they don’t get paid. They don’t get time off. They don’t get to sit back and relax after cooking, cleaning and educating. If we look at a stay at home mom’s work load she is literally working minimum 5 jobs. Maid, laundry attendant, chef, caretaker and teacher. If a dude works a single 40 hr job he can take a secondary job off mom so she can breathe.
Qiz zomar
Laundry attendant ? Caretaker. Maid
These are all the same Job. The longest it takes is 3 hours to complete. That’s hardly 5 jobs. It’s barely one job.
Natalie
Maid is cleaning up after everyone all day and night. Laundry attendant can be a mountain of dirty laundry that you have to wash and fold and put away because no on e else is going to. That in itself can take hours and hours easily. And don’t try and say well if you keep up because a lot of families make 5-6 loads a day easily, plus kids have accidents and the bedding needs to be refreshed often where maid also comes in stripping and remaking what 3-5 beds potentially. Doing everything as you go because the kids will knock over every laundry pile and while you are cleaning one thing they or dad too are leaving another mess. Cleaning, laundry, organizing, cooking, prepping, teaching. It is more tiring than working two jobs overtime, trust me I’ve done both and managing a household is much more difficult than in any workplace. You get paid with hugs and snuggles and you can’t take a sick day when you do EVERYTHING falls behind and apart. I stayed up until 6am cleaning the house the other day to get caught up to get a little sleep to have wore to do.
SUNFLOWER
MAID, REALLY ? Apparently, you are a male PIG ! A wife And mother IS NOT A MAID ! And apparently, you are one of those men that NEVER appreciates what a woman goes through to TAKE CARE of children AND a man [?] that CANNOT or WILL NOT lend a helping hand !!!
Vinny
Yea not even close. I put in 14 hour days so she can spend 15 minutes cleaning and a whole 3 hours having to actually tend to the kid. Stupid you are.
Christina
Did you bother to read the article? Mom is a teacher, not a stay at home mom
Justine
I was going to comment this, but u beat me to it so I’ll add that if he was that injured he couldn’t carry a bag why would he be strong enough to go on the trip to a park that can be fun yet grueling on the body? Just accept the fact that because of the feminist movement men have become passive aggressive with things like carrying bags, holding open doors etc. Because somehow wanting equal pay means chilvary must die
Kevin
I don’t think he did. I think he’s ordered a differing opinion. Why do people like to pile onto others without a full backstory?
Tina
You tell me? Why DID pickles feel the need to justify bad behavior? Why did pickles think that because “man tired..feet hurt” is a good reason to dump ALL parenting duties on mom?
Mike
Has anyone reprimanded him for working at Sea World?
jon
It have to be major surgery that left him an invalid or nearly so to equal being pregnant for 9 months and then delivering a baby. Despite what you obviously and obliviously think pregnancy is no picnic simply because women are biologically designed to become pregnant and deliver a child.
Even successful pregnancies It is extremely are physically taxing and take a heavy permanent toll on a woman’s body to the point that the her body is flooded with hormones in order to jack up her mood and make her happy once the child is born so that she’ll have the strength and desire to take care of it.
But pregnancy and the massive months lungs hormone swings required to carry a pregnancy to term taxes her body like nothing a man ever has to experience, and is the #1 reason why women age faster than men.
Mother of Two
Cry me a river!
Donala
Honestly I find this concerning that the father was immediately judged because he wasn’t carrying a bag? (Coming from a woman myself) I don’t think what the mime did was necessary. Leave people alone.
Tina
He was doing NOTHING to help the mother of his child with his child. People need to stop letting men do this. I am a woman whose husband never had to be asked or told to help. He loved parenting his kids.
Ben
And how do you know he wasn’t carrying it around all day and his wife offered to carry it for a few minutes? Do you know? Or do you just make assumptions based on literally nothing?
Kristen
I agree! I don’t like for my husband to carry my diaper bag. It’s also my purse and I just prefer to carry it myself. Plus, How does everyone know that dad didn’t just get done holding the baby? Maybe the baby wanted mom so she took him from dad? That happens very often with our 2 kids. I hate this new overly sensitive world.
NACHOz
I personally would rather do it all myself than have to or try to depend on anyone!! I have turned away help. I mean I dont ask for help and I don’t expect it. Thats me tho!!
Realistic
It funny cause that could happen to me to me and my wife, we swap bags alot and the baby sometimes I have everything sometimes she does, since we get tired at different levels.times or sick or hurt. Just being realistic 🙂
jon
Corrections 😂
…Even successful pregnancies are extremely taxing mentally and physically and take a heavy permanent toll on a woman’s body…
…Both the pregnancy and the massive months long hormone swings required to carry a pregnancy to term tax her body like nothing a man ever has to experience, and is the #1 reason why women age faster than men.
Wind
They age faster? You do relalize that women have a longe age expectancy then men right?
Susan
How about this……Why don’t people just mind their own flipping business!!!
Alex
You must think men have it easy. We have to deal with the mental strain of dealing with a hormonal pregnant woman. Also you are generalizing. There are a lot of fathers who go above and beyond to make the pregnancy as easy for the mother as possible. Keeping them comfortable and happy is not the easiest task..for some it’s borderline impossible but still take it on with a smile. Yes child birth is extremely taxing on the body but now with epidural and cesarean childbirth is a party. What advances are there for men dealing with hormonal women? Unreasonable at times.we have what? Beer and sports center. I dont drink and all the cable money goes to diapers and formula. But sure let’s buy the kid an outfit for when they are 5 cause it’s 50% off. I’m just saying it’s not an easy ride for men either. Yes we will make mistakes only cause we are trying our best to navigate without a map. Just know we understand it’s a tough Rollercoaster ride but remember we are sitting right next to you the whole way if you will let us.
MF
I have seen the mime so this on several occasions. This isn’t new. It’s funny and part of the act. Looking for deeper meaning in jokes and opportunities to be offended has overstayed it’s welcome. Let’s get back to being happy
Denise142
Ohh sure labor is a piece of cake right man? Shall I tell you there were centuries before epidurals?! I had both my children with no epidural offered in the 1976 and 1979. Straight up hard labor nothing but Demerol when dialated 8 baby comes at 10. So, piece of cake, absolutely not. So, man up and carry the diaper bag!
K
HA you think epidurals and cesareans are a cakewalk? For the latter, you’re literally cut open to deliver the child… and that doesn’t heal instantly, so now depending on your support system (or lack of), you’re having to do all the housework all while not being supposed to carry anything heavier than your child, lest stitches bust. And epidurals can make it more difficult to deliver, and also cause problems, either directly or later down the line. Nah, sir. Not at all.
LogicMama
I was with you until this nonsense:
“Yes child birth is extremely taxing on the body but now with epidural and cesarean childbirth is a party.”
No. No it is not. I have no idea why you would think this but you are completely wrong and i want to make sure anyone reading this knows epidurals are not magic. Cesareans are extremely rough on a mother. The healing time is actually worse.
I’m happy when fathers support pregnant mothers since that’s what they’re supposed to do in the first place. Just to know that modern medicine is not magic and childbirth is still hard.
J
for a guy you sure know a whole shot pregnancy. Weird how all of a sudden his are experts on the matter
Tired
Because us men built this country with our own hands. Is it too much to ask for a woman to buck up? We’re the first to go into battle and last to off a sinking ship. Get over yourselves!
Yikes
Christ dude white knight harder.. Apparently short of missing a limb a man isn’t allowed to have an issue because pregnancy is hard.
Philly Billy
Well my 10 surgeries and passed kidney stone would like to kick your comment in the ass crack, im only 42, oh and both nurses during my kidney stone, said they had done both, and preferred the birth over the stone, as they were pulling my morphine off and wished me the best, so are those woman liars????? Too many people who know nothin bout somebody else’s life, but wanna act like they know BETTER
Murdock
What an intense exchange of so many people having opinions. All the what ifs and made up scenarios. That couple was having a fun day out with their daughter when a simple act blew up causing a massive debate. At their expense. So for more important news, has the war in the Ukraine where people are dying, ended yet?
Ezra
The baby was 13 months old, we cannot assume from this few minutes interaction how helpful he has or has not been during that time. I have 2 torn rotator cuffs, do I have to carry a sling to put my arm in when it’s acting up? I usually had 1 kid in the ergo wrap and another on my shoulders in this kind of situation, but when that joint starts to slip, yeah I need to put a kid down before my shoulder dislocates and our family trip became an emergency room visit. A lady accosted me at the grocery store one time this happened. My wife was about a year out from cancer surgery, I had been carrying our 2yo while dealing with our autistic 4yo having an episode and he hit me right in the shoulder. So my wife had to get the 2yo into the cart and winced cuz scars suck and a lady walking by says “Wow, he can’t even lift a finger to help, huh? What a catch.” Nevermind that I’d just spent the last year working 3 jobs, taking care of all 3 kids, the house, being her caretaker (this was before family caretakers being paid was a thing) and managing my blind/deaf MIL and disabled mom. But sure, I had a moment where I needed help, so go off, right? She had no place judging that without knowing the whole story. Period.
LogicMama
Well-put. The moral of the story is people need to mind their business.
Backcountry164
Have you ever looked in a mirror?? Because I’m pretty sure you’re describing yourself. Instantly outraged without a shred of context…
Josh
Bunch of liberal drama “people” need to give it a rest. None of your business so just let it be
Philly Billy
Well put, as someone with 10 surgeries, and only 42, thank you
Hershel Soden
If he had as medical problems of any kind he should have been at home not at Disney world where we all know the walking is extreme to say the least.
Denise
When we take our 2 yr old grandson out my husband carries my purse & diaper bAg. I don’t have to ask him he just takes it from the van after taking the baby out of his car seat for me. I never have to ask my husband to help me nor has to when our 3 were babies. He always helped, so maybe that mother needs to open her mouth & tell dad to help instead of walking away!
LogicMama
You do realize limbs are independent of each other, right? It is completely possible for someone to walk around at Disney world while having no arms at all. So maybe, just maybe, dad was not able to carry the bag. Not that it’s anyone’s business
DetailDiva
Thank you for making this point. My husband has a medical condition that had that mime handed him thd backpack my families day at the theme park would have been over and we would have been on our way to ER.
Rick Mineer
May have been her unconscious choice, child on one side, bag on the other for balance.
kk
Yeah, an injury so bad he can still go to seaworld yet couldn’t hold a bag. Ask yourself why you’re more offended than he was – though we know the answer is that you don’t like men being called out and will makeup whatever story you need in your head.
wg4ever
This is the exact situation with me. I was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis, at 30 years old, and have severe pain in my wrist joints, that keeps me from carrying things and doing simple things like pumping gas. I’m sure I’ve been judged, many times, by people, while I sat in the car while she pumped the gas. My wife has been one of those persons with their arms full, while I walked with our child with arms free. Please don’t be too quick to judge.
Creamator
Than He Shouldn’t Have Gone. Leaving A Lady To Carry Everything Plus Push A Baby? Great Father. Not in that aspect
Kim
It’s annoying. The mime doesn’t know if the mother wanted to hold on to all the stuff pertaining to her cub. Unless it’s something outrageous. The couple both husband and wife are still customers. He’s an employee and should stay out an of it.
Yamy
I went to SeaWorld and what he does is for fun. For entertainment, not for it to come up on an article and create something out of nothing.
BB
I was there that day at that show. It was all done in fun and the Mime was terrific! That guy wasnt the only one being picked on. If you cant take a joke, stay home! We thoroughly enjoyed it!
Poon
Will Smith should have stayed home.
Tina
Chris Rock shouldn’t make fun of women
Backcountry164
So are women equal or are they pathetically weak and in need of constant protection. You people really need to make up your minds…
Tina
No one should mock people with medical conditions. It makes me sad that you don’t know that. Your mother must be a real peach.
Rob
It was Chris Rock’s job to roast the attendees.
If Will and Jada couldn’t handle the cost of fame, they should have stayed home.
Don’t justify aggressive violence. You are part of the problem. “He hurt my feelings” is no justification for assault.
Philly Billy
Would love to speak to the woman who said that men would make woman carry the world in a backpack to watch em struggle, yet nobody points out the man goin to work to bring home the $$ to pay for the child while the woman is home, he goes from work to work so mom can have a break when hes home, thats not only a man, but a real man, and im just talkin bout men with woman who will actually go back to work, cause there are woman who will let a man do all the work and watch them struggle as they use the credit cards and claim its “OUR MONEY” and then claim they cheated cause the man works 70hrs a wk and is nvr home, didnt see anybody mention that, have seen up close twice and yes its very real, so WE EQUAL OR NOT??? Thats how i was raised EQUAL!!!
TINAISAFUMBNAME
Why are women off limits of being made fun of?
Topazy
Why so much discussion? It was a cute improv. Why are people looking for a meaning in every little gesture? We nit pick every strand of a letter in a word.
Stop. Live life and move on.
People are so over reactive and it is killing every moment of laughter. If the man or woman in the tik tok didn’t like what happened then it is up to them to speak up. These are adults.
The mime just did his job in fun. We need to not take everything so literal.
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Philly Billy
Excellent reply!!!!
Hershel Soden
You got that right for sure.
Backcountry164
?? I’m sure you meant to say “if you can’t take a joke stay off of TikTok” because your comment makes no sense otherwise…
George
I was also there the day this happened and honestly the pre show with the mime was better than the actual show. I had a feeling in the back of my mind though that something like this would happen because no one can take a joke anymore. I honestly hadn’t laughed that hard in so long when I watched all the stuff the mime did and was sad I didn’t record the whole thing.
Sandy
I have been to Seaworld many many times and love the Mime. He has a hot, difficult job but manages to make people laugh. I’ve seen that routine before. It cracks me up. Life does not always have be critical
Mama G
Not trashing the guy, but seriously. “I was in a daze, I was hungry and my feet hurt”- yet Mama managed to carry the pack, the kid and knew where they were headed. LoL. Just kinda typical.
Trish D'Anna
Maybe Mama should have spoken up for herself. This is not an issue about men vs woman issue. It is about some mime putting in his two cents where it does not belong. If it would have been a woman mime, this would be something totally different.
Hershel Soden
If at 32 years old your feet hurt when walking for any extended period of time you need to see a podiatrist or at least get a good pair of walking shoes, of course you could rent a wheel chair and let your wife push you the baby and the bag around all day. LOL
Walt
Boo hoo – women are so abused by men in this society. One little snap shot of a minuite or two in the whole spectrum of his life and everyone oiunches what a bunch of self righteous pigs. I suggest all the outraged women who have it soooooo bad – move to Afganistan.
Mr. Bailey
Oh unclench Wally.
KC
The 50s called. They want you back.
Mother of Two
Do we only want to practice equality when it comes to money?
Edward
Nobody finds issues with someone videotaping a person who is not aware he is being recorded? Why do people feel the need to film other families and NOT their own while on vacation? Remember…..there are cameras everywhere!!!
CalledIt
So basically you are admitting you beat women. Nice. *rolls eyes*
Cuntrolyourself
Uhm…wtf?? He pointed out there’s cameras everywhere and you accuse him of beating women??
Bobby J
Wow.. what if they were taking turns carrying the load, and it was her turn. Not to mention if she’s a stay at home mom.. he had been working all week. Did all the driving etc. He may have earned a load off. We dont know all the dynamics of the situation. Wife could have said.. ” hey honey I know you’re tired I got this.”. then some simp mime sticks his nose in their business.
Tina
Stop. Just because your wife let’s you use that justification, the rest of us do nit.
Ara
I personally think of my daiper backpack as my purse. I bought it in a color that I like and matches my outfits. That is where I store my phone and wallet and such. It has things I need in it so I wouldn’t really want my husband to carry it. Also we take turns carrying our child so yes there are often times where I am carrying a backpack and our kid. I wouldn’t want other people judging my husband as being lazy or a bad parent for something stupid like that.
Natalie
I’m glad I’m not the only one that rolled their eyes and sighed at this man!!! Your wife just doesn’t want to start a fight but you obviously underappreciate her.
tired
This article didn’t need to be written
Trish D'Anna
Don’t forget the hemorrhoids! Actually, I just put that in for a laugh. Why are we off of the subject? The mime should have mined his own business. If the Mom needed help, SHE should have spoken up for herself! If it would have been a ” weird” looking stranger, this would be a totally different conversation.
Trish D'Anna
I spelled that wrong. I meant to say, the mime should have minded his own business! Sorry for my mistake. Have a great day everyone!
Brittney
This mine has been doing this for most of my life! He was there when it was Clyde and Seymour Take Pirate Island. That was our favorite show and we always got there super early to see the mime! He is so funny and means well. He had been doing this for years.
Denise
Lighten up. It’s all part of the show/entertainment.
Joe Blow
And yet it becomes a trope for a garbage writer on the internet…
Meg
I visited SeaWorld a few years back with my husband, two daughters and my sister and her husband. My sister and her husband took the lead trying to find enough seating for all of us. We became separated by the mime that works around the whale tanks. I was mortified by the mime that made fun of my sister and her husband who were very over weight. The mime rocked back in forth while walking directly behind them to the roar of the crowd. I don’t think the mime knew we were together so my sister kept walking and turning back to see what was so funny. My kids were sad because he was making fun of their family. Well I never told my sister that the whole arena was laughing at her and her husband’s expense, I just couldn’t. I have not been back to SeaWorld since. I think I have a great sense of humor and love a good joke but I couldn’t quite get over the insensitivity, humiliation and sadness on my final visit to to SeaWorld💔🦑🐙🦞🦀🐡🐠🐬🦭🦈🦐💔
Peter Griffin
Shut up Meg!
Dad
Most people here are evil. You are the reason and pressure that make men (such as me) have to carry all the burdens all the time when in public. Coz no one would now if you have carried the kid and all the bags for the entire day and only just asked the wife to give a hand a few minutes ago. They will just jump to the conclusion that you’re are terrible husband. And my insist carrying all stuff made my wife feel uncomfortable and bad as well. She wanted to help. She wanted to share some burden. Jumping to premature conclusion is an insult to both men and women.
Your mom
Pretty sure reaching for other people’s belongings can get you cracked to the carpet. This clown was lucky.
Malikfoxen
Buncha people should really stop dunking on the man. Don’t think he deserves as much criticism as he’s getting. I don’t think the mine was in the wrong either cause he was just doing his job and a lot of it was improv. Je thought it was funny, the wife didn’t have any issues and clarified she didn’t mind holding the bag, the husband thought it was funny. Why are we here still then trying to insert our opinion into the mix or attempting to make this family a martyr for whatever cause you think you wish to further? Stop. Chill out. There are better situations, and examples you can use to push whatever narrative you want to push.
Justin Scatina
I think people just need to mind their own business same goes with this whole Depp thing
Jessica
I know this Mime personally, he literally does it every other show. He didn’t single out this family. Anyone who is roasting him needs to get off their soap box.
Leslie Brown
If she didn’t want to carry the bag or the kid hand either to the dad/man.
T
So women equality goes right out the window for this situation. If she wanted him to carry something she would’ve made him.
Mano
Well,
If his feet were hurting that bad, he shouldn’t have went in the beginning! Whether my feet were hurting or not, I would have been the soldier that I am and took either the bag, baby or both, and soldiered on!!
Natalie
Typical egotistical male expecting the woman do all the work. The would not happen in my marriage.
David
Its no ones business but the husband and his wife. No one including the mime knows what happened prior to that moment. The wife could have been giving the a break from carrying the bag and the baby. We don’t know.
Bud
Easy everyone, didn’t you hear, the libtards say men can get pregnant. So no more complaining ladies.
Jon
Man I wish I had a cushy woke job like this…. Just watch YouTube or tick tock all day and write brainless articles about it and then consider myself a journalist… lol (you figured out a life hack congratulations I truly mean that before anybody says it hell yes I’m jealous hahaha but I am giving honest props if you reread it without malice in your brain I’m actually giving them props for finding a cushy job there ain’t nothing wrong with that then again this is the internet and I’m sure people will cry about it if I broke your psyche good you deserve it toughen up)
N.Walker
Are we seriously judging this man as being a bad husband because of a bag?? I mean a bad husband to me is someone who abused his kids / Wife or someone who isn’t even there. If your unhappy in your relationship don’t take it out on this fellow. But no apparently you could be a bad husband for forgetting to carry a bag. You know this just show how weak minded people can be and how quick we judge people. Clearly the wife thinks he does a decent job as a husband. How about when a guy carries all the groceries in from shopping does that make the wife a bad wife? People are to soft and need to toughen up a bit. Urrrgggg this annoyed me and I wished I didn’t click this linked.
Tim
MYOB. Mimes need to remain silent.
GTFU
zzzzzzzz this has literally been going on for decades at the park and only NOW people have an issue with it? ROFL. Snowflakes. This is the way society has gone. It’s a joke. Jesus.
Man
Both the comments section here and the TikTok thread show a ton of sexist women. Reminder: Making generalizations about men is sexist.
Geoff
Anyone who has been to Sea World at least once in the last several decades has seen the mime interacting with guests while they wait for the show. It’s harmless fun and reminds us to not take ourselves so seriously. The mime is not attacking anyone to be malicious. Unfortunately, we have turned into a society that looks at every human interaction as bullying. Just breathe!!! Have fun!! Enjoy life!! If you are fortunate enough these days to afford going to theme park, things must be going well for you.
Geoff
Maybe Dad had been carrying both baby and bag earlier, maybe it was Mom’s turn to change the babies diaper and they just left the restroom. Nobody in this chat was with this family all day. You witnessed a 30 second time of their day. RELAX!!
Jeremiah
I do not understand how anybody has a right to judge the family dynamic here, they’re doing what they do. Let them be, nobody, including myself, has any right inserting an opinion into their family. Why is it everyone with 30 extra seconds and a smartphone suddenly becomes obsessed with virtue signaling.
Tracie
It was nothing to be taken so seriously. Mom’s are used to being alone with the babies and just do their same routine of grabbing baby and bag. I know sometimes I have even told my husband “I got it”.
People need to stop making everything a gender war.
Mary Lynn
I would tell the stupid clown to mind his own business!
Rweber
I find it interesting that people are so quick to make judgements and act on other people’s actions that have no effect on them or others and only effects the people/person in that situation. They have no knowledge of their situation or family dynamic, but judge them because it’s out of their norm. There are many cultures across the world that I may find odd, rude or gross, but unless I grew up in that culture who am I to judge
Blart
Abort the child right now. Problem solved.
Micky
She’s a mom, and used to it.no big deal at all, people need to mind their own business! (Drop the mic!)
Blart
He’s a dad and is used to paying for everything, while she (excuse the pronouns) is, well, I would assume that she set him up. He was carrying the baby and bag for about eight hours now and she just took the child and bag from him when entering the seal and otter show.
Jake
I’m pretty sure the guy is a great dad. Whoever shot this video just caught the wrong moment. People seriously need to mind their own business. I’ll bet that Dad is carrying a lot of weight and whoever shot this caught the wrong moment. Enjoy the park, and mind your own dang business.
Sean
He is probably glad It was not me he stopped. Cause I probably would have hit him in the face cause I hate mimes and clowns.Especially ones trying to get in my business. They are just clowns that do not talk.
Rob E
How did this “spark debate”? One group laughed and said the dad was in the wrong, the other group was angry and said the dad was wrong.
There’s literally no debate I’m the article. Everyone pretty much agreed the dad was a tool.
Blart
Here is what i witnessed and overheard. The father was holding the blob and the mother was holding the bag. She got mad because he didn’t want to pay for another fifteen dollar hot dog and soda for her since she had already eaten enough for two days. She grabbed the blob from him and threatened him saying he would have to pay child support and will only see the blob every other weekend. He laughed, knowing the court will indeed give the mother full custody, the house, and that he would need to give up over ninety percent of his income for child support. But to be free of her and her now boyfriend mime, he will be much happier.
Peter Magallanes
The dad had major back issues. Everyone, go back to minding your OWN BUSINESS.
Mike
This has been part of the pre-show entertainment for decades! Clyde and seymore taking Pirate Island is the show and while guests stream into the amphitheater before the show this mime takes the patrons mind off the long wait! He’s great! Not sure why this is even getting press, I guess some want to bash men whenever possible!
Misty
Think about how much pain you’re wife might been too but she still held the baby and the diaper bad. It don’t make him a bad dad at all but I do think men need to be more mindfully of what his wife goes through too.
Q Man
They’ve finally conditioned me that there is no difference between a man & woman, which can’t be defined anyway unlesx you’re a biologist, and sold on Total Equality.
Carry your own freaking bag. 😏
CRAIG EASTOM
Funniest thing is these are staged..ive been to seaworld only 4 times in ky life and seen exactly this TWICE and this wasnt one of them..its a gag lol
Some Random Dude
Here’s the thing. The mime was in the wrong. There could be many reasons she was carrying it. Also tbh I’ve seen a lot of ppl get upset when I man tries to carry something for his wife/gf. Toxic masculinity smh
Karen Gertis
I doubt she was struggling. Like most moms she probably uses it for baby items and as a purse. Sometimes it’s just easier to carry it all myself. If I need my husband’s help I’ll tell him.
Lisa
The sad reality is that many men are selfishly unaware and detached from relational and familial responsibility. It just does not come natural. They need to do better!!!!! If you’re married to someone who is on top of, intentional, purposeful and tuned in to the wife and kids——Show your appreciation! He’s a rare breed!!!!
Chris
Women act like they can’t be like this either. Women are just as bad as men. This isn’t a gender issue. It’s an individual issue. Bad men and bad women exist equally.
Crappy people come in both genders.
Mary
Why did she need a big bag like that anyway. I carried 2 pampers and a bottle . Blanket
D Camp
Dad should be carrying something, unless he’s injured…
Ian B.
Look… At the end of the day, there is only one thing that governs male behavior. What/who women choose.
Not what they say they “want”, as they’ll settle for WAY less than that it seems… but what they CHOOSE. If they wanted manners, they’d never touch a door, pull out by their own chair, or carry a diaper bag. Men would be on top of it. But that’ll get you dumped 999 times out of 1000 for being “too nice”, or whatever.
So don’t reprimand the guy, Because let’s face it… He’s always been lazy. It’s not new. She chose lazy, slept with lazy, had a baby with lazy. And lazy is what it took to win her. I doubt she even required a ring- but who knows🤷♂️.
Good looking, successfull, attractive, men who wanted kids but got blown off in favor of a-holes (like that guy at minimum) have given white males in the US the highest suicide rate of any demographic in world history. Because they couldn’t force themselves to be that big a moron.
So don’t be shocked NOW.
Ian Bell
Look… At the end of the day, there is only one thing that governs male behavior. What/who women choose.
Not what they say they “want”, as they’ll settle for WAY less than that it seems… but what they CHOOSE. If they wanted manners, they’d never touch a door, pull out by their own chair, or carry a diaper bag. Men would be on top of it. But that’ll get you dumped 999 times out of 1000 for being “too nice”, or whatever.
So don’t reprimand the guy, Because let’s face it… He’s always been lazy. It’s not new. She chose lazy, slept with lazy, had a baby with lazy. And lazy is what it took to win her. I doubt she even required a ring- but who knows🤷♂️.
Good looking, successfull, attractive, men who wanted kids but got blown off in favor of a-holes (like that guy at minimum) have given white males in the US the highest suicide rate of any demographic in world history. Because they couldn’t force themselves to be that big a moron.
So don’t be shocked NOW.
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