I think he should call off the wedding. My reasoning is if she not willing to accept his quirks because she embarased and no room for a compromises, then in the long run it could lead to future issues. Marriage is a two way union and not a dictatorship on either side.
It’s her day bro. If you feel this is a big enough issue do some pre marital counseling or talk about it because there’s deeper issues here fir sure. Maybe she isn’t the one sounds like it.
There are many women out there that would give anything to have a wedding like that. If that is the ceremony imagine how being married will be. If she can’t accept who and how you are, give her the boot.
I think having a full blown Star Wars wedding is tacky, when some subtle touches, and a couple of big ones at the reception would be enough. That being said, ‘traditional’ wedding preparations are garbage. It’s insipid, and cliched for a reason. You say men don’t want to participate in weddings, but then you want to subject them to the most unimaginative, cliched, frou-frou stuff imaginable. That’s why when they do those wedding shows like ‘Four Weddings’, the traditional weddings are always the worst rated. You say it’s her big day, but it’s also his day, too. Why shouldn’t he get a say in it?
And of course, there’s the ignoring of his interests. If she can’t accept that he likes those things, then maybe she’s not the one for him. I like video games and sci-fi movies. If a woman told me I couldn’t enjoy those things, I would be like, “We can be friends, but your ass is out of here as far as a life partner.” It’s ridiculous, the “Grounded for Life” idea of giving up all your interests to get a woman, and becoming a bland man like any other.
I was watching “The Newlywed Game” once, the new version, and I remember a guy that said his wife didn’t even allow him to watch sci-fi movies when she was there, and I was like dude, what the hell are you doing?!? Get the hell out of there, and find yourself another woman immediately!!
Why not have a bachelor party weekend that’s Star Wars themed? Take tons of pictures and videos, and don’t forget to crash the bachelorette party…just claim you came to rescue her from Jabba the Hutt! It’s primarily a guy thing, anyway, and I’m sure you’re friends will love it–and since the ladies aren’t invited she can’t really say no to that.
Men tell a joke that if they could, they would rather have a cardboard cutouts of himself and his groomsmen at the wedding because that is what they are reduced to. Stand there and do nothing, you are meaningless.
Well, as a person who knows marriages are 50/50, you need to compromise and respect your wife’s or husband’s personality and make the event memorable for you both.
What is wrong with having blue drinks and stormtroopers? If she doesn’t like it, find a wife who does.
From my past experiences with breakups, if you are not being treated with respect and if she or he is not accepting who you are and what you like, say good bye to her or him.
My husband is a huge star wars fan and I live it too but not on his level. We had a star wars wedding but I did not want it to be too star wars crazy. So we had red and blue lights. Groomsmen had a black tux with blue vests, bridesmaids wore red dresses. Our tables had star wars party favors, but it all looked elegant. We all walked it to a starwars soundtrack and our first dance was a lightsaber battle but then it changed into love is an open door (Frozen). With all this being said, maybe she is just thinking that a star wars wedding will be tacky, but if you look into it and pick the right things, it can look elegant and it will be a wedding you won’t forget.
Comments for Groom Says Bride Won’t Allow ‘Star Wars’ Wedding, Internet Goes Wild
Daniqueka
I think he should call off the wedding. My reasoning is if she not willing to accept his quirks because she embarased and no room for a compromises, then in the long run it could lead to future issues. Marriage is a two way union and not a dictatorship on either side.
Jeff
It’s her day bro. If you feel this is a big enough issue do some pre marital counseling or talk about it because there’s deeper issues here fir sure. Maybe she isn’t the one sounds like it.
FiestaBear
It’s THEIR day. If she is not willing to compromise because she is selfish, then she needs to find a man who is the push over of his dreams.
Christopher M Hall
It’s a traaaaap! She won’t give him anything, not even some compromise. Stick her ass on Alderaan and give Tarkin the okay.
Tommy
There are many women out there that would give anything to have a wedding like that. If that is the ceremony imagine how being married will be. If she can’t accept who and how you are, give her the boot.
Anthony
I think having a full blown Star Wars wedding is tacky, when some subtle touches, and a couple of big ones at the reception would be enough. That being said, ‘traditional’ wedding preparations are garbage. It’s insipid, and cliched for a reason. You say men don’t want to participate in weddings, but then you want to subject them to the most unimaginative, cliched, frou-frou stuff imaginable. That’s why when they do those wedding shows like ‘Four Weddings’, the traditional weddings are always the worst rated. You say it’s her big day, but it’s also his day, too. Why shouldn’t he get a say in it?
And of course, there’s the ignoring of his interests. If she can’t accept that he likes those things, then maybe she’s not the one for him. I like video games and sci-fi movies. If a woman told me I couldn’t enjoy those things, I would be like, “We can be friends, but your ass is out of here as far as a life partner.” It’s ridiculous, the “Grounded for Life” idea of giving up all your interests to get a woman, and becoming a bland man like any other.
I was watching “The Newlywed Game” once, the new version, and I remember a guy that said his wife didn’t even allow him to watch sci-fi movies when she was there, and I was like dude, what the hell are you doing?!? Get the hell out of there, and find yourself another woman immediately!!
FiestaBear
Amen, Brother Tony. Amen.
Michelle
Why not have a bachelor party weekend that’s Star Wars themed? Take tons of pictures and videos, and don’t forget to crash the bachelorette party…just claim you came to rescue her from Jabba the Hutt! It’s primarily a guy thing, anyway, and I’m sure you’re friends will love it–and since the ladies aren’t invited she can’t really say no to that.
Keith
How about a single guy that is down for a star wars wedding instead?
Amelia
Wow. Swing and a miss! That one went straight over your head!
FiestaBear
Men tell a joke that if they could, they would rather have a cardboard cutouts of himself and his groomsmen at the wedding because that is what they are reduced to. Stand there and do nothing, you are meaningless.
Well, as a person who knows marriages are 50/50, you need to compromise and respect your wife’s or husband’s personality and make the event memorable for you both.
What is wrong with having blue drinks and stormtroopers? If she doesn’t like it, find a wife who does.
From my past experiences with breakups, if you are not being treated with respect and if she or he is not accepting who you are and what you like, say good bye to her or him.
Shanna
Don’t do it dude! It’s a trap!
What else would she not compromise on? You are half the team, you should get to plan half the wedding.
Natalie
My husband is a huge star wars fan and I live it too but not on his level. We had a star wars wedding but I did not want it to be too star wars crazy. So we had red and blue lights. Groomsmen had a black tux with blue vests, bridesmaids wore red dresses. Our tables had star wars party favors, but it all looked elegant. We all walked it to a starwars soundtrack and our first dance was a lightsaber battle but then it changed into love is an open door (Frozen). With all this being said, maybe she is just thinking that a star wars wedding will be tacky, but if you look into it and pick the right things, it can look elegant and it will be a wedding you won’t forget.
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